Back to School

"There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven." (Ecclesiastes 3:1)

In a week or two, school will start. While some parents may look forward to resuming structured daily routines, others wonder what lies ahead. While many students may be excited about returning to school, others feel nervous, anxious, and even afraid of entering a new grade and possibly a new school.

Away from home for the first time can be very scary for little kids. Elementary students wonder whether they will like their new teacher, and vice versa. Preteens worry about not accepted by peers nor fitting in at a middle (or junior high) school that requires traveling from classroom to classroom. High school students are anxious with issues concerning peer acceptance, performance, time, and identity.

Even if they do not seem nervous, talk with your children about going back to school. Listen for their feelings. Girls may be more expressive but boys who seem calm could also be nervous and upset. You may want to take your child to his new school before the big day so to explore classrooms and meet teachers. Being emotionally and mentally prepared for new place and routine will alleviate nervousness and anxiety.

A new school year is time for parents to release their children one more step. Help them face changes, take responsibility, and learn new skills. By the time they enter college, you will still miss them but you will find comfort knowing that you have tried your best to be a "Good Enough" parent by preparing and releasing your child, one step at a time, for this day!

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